debate exposes doubt

hey all. my friend started a debate on her blog about...

"...whether sleeping with someone necessarily involves sex."

and it drew quite a response from her reader... so i thought hey.. why not continue the discussion over here on aueralis. What do u think? also... another matter brought up was whether Social Norms today dictate whether sex should be kept within a marraige. what say you?

p.s im guessing that there wun be muc of a response coz ive got so few readers:P