so... on with the topic of marriage.(damn... i had alot of typos in the last post must have been the aftereffects of running in this weather)

what is Marriage? is it really relevant and important in this age?
in 1 camp, people view marriages as contracts binding each other and there is with reason you cant find any thing that should hold these 2 people together for their entire life times, it is in fact a.... trammel to our personal freedom, an impedence... thus people should not engage in such rigid social laws, but embrace freedom of choice and not be bound by pieces of paper.

on the other hand, the traditional people think of marriage as being sacred and not to be broken. it is.. just so... failure to keep this most sacred of all rules means that society as we know it shall end (like it hasnt already). There are many arguments that support both camps, if you want to know them, go read The Straits Times.

marraige to me is an act of selflessness... no, there is no bind to be found with reason, that exchanging vows alone being enough to bind 2 people irrevocably is pure wishwash, derision. it is the person's honor and maturity that form the very fibres of the bind that marriage depends on. everyone has a choice, whether you choose to endorse a dogged adherence to traditions or a swinging life style is entire up to you.

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